tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-222651782024-03-13T08:47:52.996-07:002DogsAndaBabyJJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-18391827823584510032006-12-21T10:45:00.000-08:002006-12-21T11:50:41.417-08:00Abby 1993-2006<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhT8EYjhdtyo7hTENEuhZn77h2juH7GAL5ul4Cl_XcKJSc4Mi4xAw6WaUX9vW52zrVMNYPETiA4fDUdS52vQFzrLonTi8PHjPIuvS7qcIj40WYuaa_g8wm0uG6up9EkygZHjj6K/s1600-h/IMG_0044.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5011054238017860498" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhT8EYjhdtyo7hTENEuhZn77h2juH7GAL5ul4Cl_XcKJSc4Mi4xAw6WaUX9vW52zrVMNYPETiA4fDUdS52vQFzrLonTi8PHjPIuvS7qcIj40WYuaa_g8wm0uG6up9EkygZHjj6K/s400/IMG_0044.JPG" border="0" /></a> Abby died one week ago today. I've yet to download the last images of her, as it still breaks my heart to think about it. Just about every time I take Teeva out, I think of her and my eyes well up.<br /><br />She was my companion for nearly 12 years. Four times longer than I've known my wife. Six times longer than I've known my son. One-third of my entire lifetime. She will be missed.<br /><br />I got her from a no-kill shelter in Bumfuck, Indiana. She was one of approximately 200 dogs and 400 cats that were on this farm. The farm was, according to the toothless man running the place, owned by the animals. Apparently, when the owner of the farm passed, she made arrangements for the farm to be owned by the animals. Not a bad deal, really.<br /><br />I had been in Indy for a couple of months, and my GF at the time had recently arrived to be with me. I think we had been in our apartment just a week when we went looking for a dog. I don't remember much of the details of the search, but somehow, we ended up at this particular shelter. The dogs were all about 4-8 to a 20'x20' or so run, set up in a horseshoe around a larger enclosed area. The first dog we asked about was "unadoptable" due to behavior issues - she was a shelter lifer.<br /><br />I went one way around and the gf went the other way around the horseshoe, looking for another dog. All the dogs were barking frantically at the strangers walking through their kingdom. Then I saw her. Perched on top of her doghouse like snoopy. Standing, regally, quietly. When our eyes made contact, it was magic! I knew she was the one. We got her out and played with her a bit and fell in love. "Sonja", I think, is what her name at the time was. We were told that she was about 1-1/2 to 2 yrs old. She had come from a family that had had her for about a year before bringing her to the shelter 'cause she just didn't work out, and had been at the shelter for a good six months. Now, anyone that knows Abby would have to ask, "what do you mean, didn't work out". We never got an answer, but we figured she must have been beaten by her previous "family". Whatever the reason, we signed on the line and were told to come back in two days.<br /><br />Two days later, the gf went to get her. It was the middle of January, the temperature had dipped into the teens (during the day!), the wind was blowing and it was snowing outside. She saved Abby from the weather and brought her home.<br /><br />She'd been with me ever since, from Indiana, to Vermont, then back accross the country to California, where she lived out the rest of her life. She's been to both coasts, numerous mountain ranges, parks, lakes, rivers and reservoirs.<br /><br />She spent the last hours of her life in our garden. She wanted to be alone, outside, in the rain. That was the sure sign that it was time. We had a vet come to the house and administer the shots that sent her off for good. She died in the garden, surrounded by those who loved her.<br /><br />We will pick up her ashes next week and then figure out what to do with them. I'd love to scatter bits of them wherever she'd been, but that won't be possible. I'm sure a few will go in the pacific, some in the atlantic and I want to go back to the green mountains in vermont and drop some there, as well.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-1127269861578524902006-11-29T13:32:00.000-08:002006-11-29T13:36:03.861-08:00TrendsetterYesterday, when I went to pick Cobalt up after school, I was told that our little Rhodes Scholar-to-be decided that he would use one of his red chucks (that's his tennis shoes to those of you not familiar with the common name of the Chuck Taylor All Stars by Converse) as a bowl for his goldfish...<br /><br />The other kids laughed, and then proceeded to remove their shoes and use them as bowls, too.<br /><br />I always say that this kid is a born leader.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-687900143949094512006-11-20T22:32:00.000-08:002006-11-20T22:40:48.881-08:00Santa Who?Last year, much to my surprise, Kyle told me that she does not want Cobalt to know about or believe in Santa. I can't really remember which it is, but either way, I think it's kind of silly.<br /><br />Me, I'm more or less a scrooge. Or at least for the last 30 years or so I've been. Whereas the missus is all about the holiday...singing carols, decking the halls, shopping, giving gifts. So now that it's almost the official christmas season, and time for me to be intoxicated for a month straight, I've been thinking a lot about this again. <br /><br />Fortunately for us, it seems the kid is infatuated with snowmen. We've seen them out a few places like the zoo and on doors. And every time he sees one, he goes apeshit. It's incredible! It's his new big thing, after lions (roar!), a-bi-das (pumpkins) and motorcycles. So maybe that'll be the big mascot for us this year.<br /><br />But the question I have is where does the love of the snowman come from? We live in California for fuck's sake. Last year we were in Boston after the storm, but I don't remember seeing any and I'm sure he doesn't. Maybe its the Boston-Chicago genes of his folks.<br /><br />Anyway, not sure where this is going, but it'll be sure interesting to see.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-62542640554215072132006-11-13T22:04:00.000-08:002006-11-14T07:45:36.412-08:00Cars, Trucks, a little art and a whole lotta love<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/2dogsandababy/sets/72157594372994180/"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/111/296116615_175043ad85_o.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />On November 10, 2006, Cobalt turned 2. Kyle and I took the day off from work to hang out with the little guy. We had a fabulous day. We let Cobalt sleep in, which allowed mom and dad to have some "adult time" in the morning. After he got up, we took him down to Bean Bag for breakfast.<br />That afternoon, we took him to the zoo to see the <a href="http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/blogs/parenting/detail?blogid=29&entry_id=7037#readmore">Feeding of the Lions</a>. <a href="http://static.flickr.com/117/296118137_1228f6e459_o.jpg"><img style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/117/296118137_1228f6e459_o.jpg" border="0" /></a>However, we did get to see the Feeding of the Penguins, although not as cruesome, it was still quite fun for him. Cobalt did get to see the lions, but they had pretty much had their way with the bunnies by the time we got there. All that remained was some fur and a little hamburger. Cobalt loved the lions so much he kept running in and out of the feeding house until they closed us out.<br />He didn't nap that day, and he fell asleep on the way down to the zoo. However, being the good parents that we are, we decided to wake him when we got there. It was a calculated risk, and one that paid off. He loved the small primates, jumping around in their pens. The giraffes in the "african safari" area, or whatever the fuck they call it, were a hit, too. He even got to go to the petting zoo and feed the sheep. I think that was just a little too much like feeding the dogs and the thrill wore off pretty quickly. But he loved all the other animals, and go to see an owl eat some kind of dead fleshy thing, as well.<br />The next day, Saturday, was truly the Big Day. Dad baked a cake and mom decorated it, as only she can. This time, instead of an <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/2dogsandababy/210064915/in/set-72157594229149790/">abstract piece of art</a> she made the truck you see above. I've gotta say, that it turned out a hell of a lot better than I had expected. (She's really got a talent, that Kyle!) I also made the biggest lasagna I'd ever seen, <a href="http://static.flickr.com/100/296117761_681ab8d452_o.jpg"><img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/100/296117761_681ab8d452_o.jpg" border="0" /></a>but neglected to take a picture of it. We decorated everything with the Co-2 symbol you see at the right. Even the lasagna!<br /></span>Anyway, the party was a blast. His oldest friend Zuby came down with his brother Benny from Ukiah. Sidney and Ian were of course there, as well as the ever-so-stylin' Beckett. His new friends Evan and Chloe brought their folks, and little Radlee is no longer little.<br />It's fun to watch the interaction of the young ones. At first, they are shy and cautious, most clinging to their parents. But after a while, once they realize that they are stuck with each other for the next few hours, they seem to loosen up. There was lots of running around, screaming, crying, laughing. The house was full and full of joy. The food was good, the beer and wine were flowing, and the cake was a hit.<br />In the end, Cobalt made out like a bandit with gifts or cars, trucks, trains, Darth Potato(e) Head and more. We're even thinking of cancelling christmas, but I doubt that will happen.<br />Thanks All and Happy Birthday, son!<br /><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/106/296116810_64486238b3_o.jpg" border="0" />JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-45101050103980953572006-11-09T12:41:00.000-08:002006-11-09T12:50:05.206-08:00Air GuitarI just started to teach Cobalt how to play air guitar yesterday. After his first lesson, he kind of "got it". In fact, he was doing it without any prompting. Of course, trying to capture this on video was another adventure. So this is an edited down from the original 49 seconds.<br /><br /><object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/bmrIkyKJS28"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/bmrIkyKJS28" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object><br /><br />Personally, I think he looks more like an LA Skinhead from Repo Man or something. Either way, HE ROCKS!JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-13088496243694862552006-11-07T13:56:00.000-08:002006-11-07T14:55:41.839-08:00Halloween follow-upCobalt sent a little note to Kyle's boss, apologizing for <a href="http://2dogsandababy.blogspot.com/2006/11/halloween-post.html">breaking his vase</a>. Bill sent this reply...<br /><br /><br /><em>Hi Cobalt. Howyudoin? Hey,, I just opened your note tonight when I found it in my sportcoat pocket. I guess I put it in my pocket last week at work expecting to open it when I got home. It was great having you here last week. We hardly ever have interesting people like you over cause my kids up and went and got too darn tall. Short ones are a whole lot more fun. Actually, they are just as interesting at any age, they just get different, but equally challenging at any age. Now for instance, my son just decided (after $32,000 of flight time), that flying is too boring for him. You wouldn't do that to your parents would you? . I suggest you pick something nice and cheap like Neurosurgery.<br /></em><br /><em>Ok, back to Halloween, not to worry about a stupid pot, stuff happens all the time. I can tell you for sure that my mistakes cost a whole lot more than a pot, and a even a whole lot more than my son's escapades.<br /><br /></em><em></em><em>Have a great week, I will be in DC on work and visiting my perfect<br />Daughter (all daughters are perfect)--you won't need to remember that, cause your mom will remind you. </em><br /><em><br />Some day when you make a pot in school and it's not worthy of saving in your memorabilia box, send it my way and I will but it on a the shelf<br /><br />Come back next year but wear Michigan colors, not Stanford<br /><br />Uncle Bill</em>JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-67508966795955185782006-11-02T07:48:00.000-08:002006-11-02T20:13:40.775-08:00The Halloween Post<img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/111/285993485_1852381052_o.jpg" border="0" /><br /><br /><br /><div>Well, I supposed I need to post about Halloween. I should have written this post that night, or perhaps the day after, but I am swamped with not much time on my hands. But since I need to have it fresh in my mind, I'm taking a little bread from work right now to take care of it.</div><div></div><div>This year, like last year (I think), Cobalt went as a clown. He wore the costume that his uncle Mark and his father both wore when they were kids. Although I think we wore them when we were about a year older. His Great-Grandmother Strahle made the costume, and g.ma and g.pa have kept them in a box in their crawl space all this time, just waiting for the day that they could give them to a grandchild. Thanks Mom and Dad!</div><div></div><div>We didn't really go all out this year, or at least that was the plan. Both Kyle and I have been busy with work and things like workin g on the yard and fixing my car that we haven't really had that much time to worry about Halloween. In fact, we were lucky to get out at all. So we didn't even bother to put any clown make-up on the boy, or even try to get him to wear the cap that goes with the outfit. The pom-pons on the front of the jumpsuit were not put back on, either. We've also blown off going to a pumpkin patch and carving punkins, as well. But none of this was lost on Cobalt. I think he knew something was up. Afterall, he got to carve punkins at school, and everytime we've passed one in the last couple of weeks he's screamed, "ABIDAS!"</div><div></div><div>For what I think is the first time ever, Kyle and I were able to pick Cobalt up from school, together. What a treat! We even brought the dogs with us, so that we could wander back through the park in order let them do their thing so that we could stay out with me worrying or having to rush home or even take them out when we got home.</div><div></div><div>This year, we had plenty of options for parties and trick-or-treating, too. We had an invite over to Beckett's for his annual monster bash. The <a href="http://www.nopna.org/">neighborhood</a> had a <a href="http://www.kodakgallery.com/paigem/main/halloween_nopna-style">party</a> that included fun and games at a local cafe' as well as a blocked-off street party. And lastly, we were invited over to Kyle's boss's house for cocktails, too. Because of Kyle's recent accolades and title-promotions at work recently, we opted for the latter of the three.</div><div><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/109/285993650_56a532485c_o.jpg" border="0" /></div><div>So we headed out to 29th and California, out close to the area of San Francisco known as Sea Cliff - an exclusive neighborhood that overlooks Baker Beach, the Presidio and the Marin Headlands and is home to many famous wealthy folks like Robin Williams. And since I mention him here, I continue by saying that yes, we did stop at his house (Kyle wasn't very impressed by it) to get a glow stick but more on that in a moment.</div><div></div><div>Apparently, unbeknownst to myself, Sea Cliff is like a Mecca for trick-or-treaters from all over SF and elsewhere. The three of us were a minority in this neighborhood for the following reasons: we are neither rich or in high school, and english is our first language (bet you couldn't tell from my grammar, huh?). The streets of the neighborhood were swamped with people. I'd say there were at least a hundred or so folks outside of the Robin Williams house at any given time. And the neighbors definitely take advantage of it. </div><div></div><div>I didn't get many pictures of the decorations, but probably should have. Many of the homes had displays, ranging from large inflatable pumpkins to dracula climbing from a coffin (Bill's and Ruth's). Many, many houses had jack-o-lanterns out, indicatint that they had candy for the kids. Some of these people must have spent a few hundred dollars on candy there were so many visitors.</div><div></div><div>So I mentioned Bill's & Ruth's above. For those of you that don't know, Bill is Kyle's boss at work. The reason we were out in that neighborhood in the first place was that they had invited us and other colleagues, friends, neighbors, etc. over for adult treats. We were outside in front for a while, watching Coffin Guy scare the bejeezes out of the kids (and some adults, too). His schtick was that he was kind of mechanical... almost fake, but very real. Cobalt stood about 8 ft away, staring at the guy, trying to figure out what was going on. The person in the chair next to Coffin Guy was the Candy Phantom...a lady with a mask like the Phantom of the Opera's, sitting with a bowl of candy on her lap. He would make a move, then go back. Their was another kid there too, and he stood <em>behind</em> his mother. Coffin Guy was taking it easy on the little guys, not really stirring or trying to scare them. Cobalt started to make a move, and the cast and crew urged him on...but he came back. A few moments later, however, he made his move. While staring straight at Coffin Guy, Cobalt made a bee-line for Candy Phantom's bowl. Coffin Guy stayed laying down, barely moving his eyes, as Cobalt scored the swag and returned with his prize. The other boy (who was 3-1/2) was still behind his mother when the amassing crowd cheered and applauded Cobalt for his bravery. What a guy!</div><div>We then entered Bill's house, studying it as we enetered (it was our first time there). We made our way to the gathering back by the kitchen and breakfast table. (Where else, but in the kitchen? Why do parties all end up in the kitchen. Cobalt made us sit down at the table, after Kyle got a bit of food. Cobalt was playing with the chips and dip, while we were enjoying our break with a glass of wine. Just as we were settling in , we heard the sound...cccrraaaaasssssshhhhhhh.</div><div>I'm sure a stream of profanities left my mouth when I turned to discover what I already knew. Cobalt had found the clay vases on the credenza and smashed one on the floor. What were we to do? Cobalt had just broken a valuable at his mommy's BOSS's house!</div>Thankfully, Bill is a swell guy. He simply swept the shards out of the way and said "don't worry about it...I guess our house is no longer child-proof." Then he went about with the party as though nothing happened.<br />After a while, Cobalt started to get antsy again, so I decided it was time for us to go, so as not to have anything else ruined. I honestly, thought that we were going to go home. But when we left the house, Cobalt turned left instead of right and headed for the next Jack-o'-lantern. He contined to hit what seemed like every house in a 2 block radius, filling his bag with candy and not slowing down. He would occasionally let out a "trk-trt" and always "bye-bye". When we went passed the car, we got in and headed home.<br />Back in our neighborhood, Cobalt wasn't done. He didn't want to go in the house and we wanted to see what the rest of the neighborhood looked like. We headed out and right next to the apartment building where I used to live, and Cobalt was conceived, was an open garage filled with people, food (a buffet), drinks and candy. Cobalt got some goodies, and we continued on to see the rest of the hood. By then it was mostly shut down, and we heard tales of the loads of people and just about everyone ran out of candy. Overally, it looked like a success! We decided that we would stick around the neighborhood next year.<br />We stopped again at the garage down the street for a nightcap and some non-candy food. We got back home just before 11 and Cobalt examined his treasures:<br /><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/108/285993969_ba553a7bd0_o.jpg" border="0" />JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-43871120340844943932006-10-27T08:39:00.000-07:002006-10-27T08:52:04.284-07:00Broken GlassLast Saturday, Cobalt put his fist through the front window.<br /><br />Luckily, he neither cut himself badly or fell through. He's had this habit, that we were never very fond of and always discourage, of pounding on the windows with his hands or any object he may have in them. This incident took place, while Kyle and I were outside trimming the big tree, in order to get more light into the back yard. Cobalt was inside playing with Rui, our homestay student from China.<br /><br />I had escaped into the garage to get or do something, and when I came back out, Kyle came running out for me to come inside. She said that Cobalt had broken the front window. Apparently, Rui was about to get in the shower and she heard the glass break. I was right below the window and didn't hear a thing. Cobalt didn't scream or cry, amazingly. He apparently just went about his business.<br /><br />Lucky for him, he ended up with just a little cut on his finger, that did require a bandage, but didn't require a trip upstairs to The Dr. (Uncle Pat) or to the emergency room.<br /><br />Luckily for us, we had a window that sort-of fit to replace the broken one. Previously, we removed the window between the kitchen and the laundry porch. That window was about 1/4" wider than the one in the front. (You see, all the windows in this place appear to be custom size. I don't think that we even have two identical!) I decided that it would be easier to trim the wood frame of the window than the glass itself, as the glass is old and kind of fragile. So I spent the next couple of hours, trimming and fitting the window back into place.<br /><br />So much for a relaxing Saturday.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-13258889621146859652006-10-23T10:01:00.000-07:002006-10-23T10:03:54.376-07:00BobaltNow that Cobalt is "talking" a bit, he's decided that his name is to be "Bobalt". Don't know if he actually knows what he is saying, or if he is mimicking our intonations, or if he just can't say the hard "c".<br /><br />In other news, he can count to five this way: two...five...two...five...two...(yay!, clap, clap, clap)<br /><br />Too cute.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-74884702049224877962006-10-13T08:47:00.000-07:002006-10-13T08:57:53.887-07:00PlaygroundLast night, I realized why we have such things as strollers...<br /><br />I got home from work a little early last night, so I picked up the dogs on the way to get Cobalt from school. I figured that we could go to the playground or take a walk (I've been needing the excercise) after we picked him up. Well, I must have had my head up my ass in the garage, 'cause I didn't notice that the stroller <em>was</em> there and that Cobalt did not have the stroller at school.<br /><br />Upon picking up the little bugger, we decided to brave it and go ahead and hit the playground. We made it over there alright, had fun and got dirty at the playground. The dogs even made some little premie kids happy by allowing a loooong and tenuous petting session to take place. <br /><br />Then it became the time to leave...<br /><br />After giving Cobalt a few warnings that we were going to have to go home to bake the bread that was proofing on the counter, I made the move to leave. You'd have thought that I was trying to pull his fingernails out, slowly, the way he was wailing. He kicked as only he can kick. He even pinched my face so hard I thought I was going to bleed. Finally, I pulled him up and tucked him in my arms like I was the Heisman Trophey, unleashed the dogs and made and end run.<br /><br />It <em>only</em> took us about 1/2 hour to make the 5-block walk. Battered and bruised, we finally made it. And the bread? Fabulous. No pictures, however, as the comera fucking broke and I have to send it back to Canon for repair/replacement. I will NOT be buying another Canon.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-84408039954253770542006-10-09T09:15:00.000-07:002006-10-09T09:19:04.119-07:00Oh Shit!The other morning, while Cobalt was out in the back with his Granddad's wife, Elizabet, we heard the scream...<br /><br />"ABBY...SHIT...EW...STINKY" (or something along those lines)<br /><br />At that point I thought: "well, better clean up the <a href="http://2dogsandababy.blogspot.com/2006/07/grown-grass-pt-2.html">LAWN</a>".JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-35224764682024161452006-10-05T13:50:00.000-07:002006-10-05T14:01:57.178-07:00Pictures for a rainy day.<div>It's been a rough couple of weeks and I need to smile...<br /><br /><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/111/261716049_126ddc45f0_o.jpg" border="0" /><br /><a href="http://static.flickr.com/98/261715034_ad8ab40ee8_o.jpg"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/98/261715034_ad8ab40ee8_o.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div><a href="http://static.flickr.com/99/261715164_8baa95cf2c_o.jpg"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/99/261715164_8baa95cf2c_o.jpg" border="0" /></a> <img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/120/253034460_45153795f8_o.jpg" border="0" /><br /><br /><div><br /><p>...there, that's better. </p><br /><p></p><br /><p>The first image was after painting at the NOPNA Block Party, and the others were after a bath. Cobalt wanted to wear the shirt that mom wear's to sketch faces.<br /></p></div></div></div>JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-11043360199244097942006-09-30T09:06:00.000-07:002006-09-30T09:20:30.976-07:00How early is too early?There is a lot in the news lately about early education. I just finished reading <a href="http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/c/a/2006/09/30/MNG28LFTUU1.DTL">this article</a> in the SF Chronicle about the decisions to either start your kid in Kindergarten at the age of 4 or "redshirt" a kid until they are six.<br /><br />You see, Cobalt was born November 10. The current cutoff in California is December 5. That means that, if we want, Cobalt could enter Kindergarten while he is still 4 (three years from now). As far as I can tell, we would have the option to hold him back if we don't think he is ready. Apparently, there is legislation on the table that would move the date up to September 30 by the time he is "ready" to start kindergarten.<br /><br />Now, I think it's too early to tell whether or not he will be ready for kindergarten in 3 years or 4. But Cobalt is big for his age, seems to be a "nice kid" (at least that's what everyone else tells me) and he doesn't appear to be dumb. However, he is, compared to other of our friends, a late-talker. Just recently he began to use words for most things, and can go through the Richard Scarry books and shout out his words for planes, trucks, cars and even chicken! <br /><br />Since I've never been around kids of this age, I have no metric for where he is supposed to be, development-wise. So I have no idea if he is actually "smart", "slow" or just plain average. I think we've always assumed that he would enter school early, due to the simple fact that he is so big. Even if he were able to start Kindergarten when he is still 4, he will most likely be one of the bigger kids in the class. If he has to wait another year, he will almost certainly be the biggest.<br /><br />At this point, it seems almost absurd to think about it, but after reading articles like this, it comes to the front of the mind. Furthermore, we are hoping to start him in preschool next fall, as well.<br /><br />Only time will tell.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-35914328979528200952006-09-21T13:14:00.000-07:002006-09-21T13:16:31.909-07:00Premature bloggingWell, I guess I spoke too soon. I had nothing to do with his bedding behavior. He woke up with a nasty snotty cold. I guess he was just tired. <br /><br />Mom is now back and so is the bottle. We'll see how his sleep goes.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-71975595132848920822006-09-19T21:27:00.000-07:002006-09-19T22:13:58.122-07:00ch...ch...ch...ch...Changes!Shit, things seem to be progressing fast around here. I posted <a href="http://2dogsandababy.blogspot.com/2006/09/ham-and-potatoes.html">before</a> about him starting to talk more. But that's not even it. Every thing he does every day seems to be new and improved over yesterday. Let me shoot off a few examples here...<br /><br /><em>Dogs</em>...Just today, he started to call Teeva, "T.C.", which is what I use sometimes when calling her (it stands for Teeva Chiro). Not only that, we were getting ready to take (<a href="http://2dogsandababy.blogspot.com/2006/09/fing-dogs.html">all four</a>) dogs out for our evening walk and Teeva was, of course, lagging behind. So he started yelling down the hallway, "TC...cmn", which I translated as "come on". Furthermore, after we got outside and TC was waiting on the top step and Cobalt was half-way down already (by himself and upright, thank you very much) he turned around and went back up and pushed on her butt to force her to get down.<br /><em></em><br /><em>Sleep...</em> I suppose I should mention that Kyle is out of town, working on a courthouse renovation (she's the Project Architect, and defacto PM) in Fresno. (Apparently, they need more courtrooms to handle all the meth cookers in the area.)<br />Anyway, Cobalt's still been having a hell of a time getting to sleep at night, usually requiring a bottle of two of milk and his father having to put him back to bed a couple of times and/or his mother lying with him in bed until he falls asleep. Well, for the last two nights, it's been dad reading him a couple of stories and then goodnight. Last night, when I went to leave his room, he wanted a bottle (after refusing one 1/2-hour previous). Tonight, when I put the little angel down, he gave about 4 kisses, and as I got up to leave, instead of crying or getting out of bed, he just gave me a little wave and rolled over to go to sleep.<br />My friends, you have no idea how big this is for us. We've tried a number of things to get him to go and stay asleep at night. First, we tried a "routine"...that didn't last long as neither Kyle, me or Cobalt could adhere to it. Then we found him a <a href="http://2dogsandababy.blogspot.com/2006/07/better-than-flea-market.html">new bed</a> on craigslist. Then Kyle made some blankets for him... the first one was great and the second one, well, I really don't know what she was thinking.<br />So last week we went comforter shopping. After spending nearly an hour and a half in the stupid Bed, Bath and Beyond, we came out of there with nothing, as all they had was either shit or out of stock. I then went to Ikea to pick one up...it was cheaper <em>and </em>nicer. After getting the new comforter, he has slept through the night, without getting up to snuggle with mom, several times. I guess I can't take all the credit for his better sleep, but I'd like to think I helped in some way.<br /><br /><em>shoes...</em> he has been very unwilling to wear any shoes on his feet for several weeks, or has it been months. We'd gotten him several pairs of chuck taylor's as they seemed to be the best for his high instep. We also have been buying him Teva sandals, too. Both have helped, but for the last couple of weeks, he didn't want the sandals or the chucks. Finally, last week, I took him up to the shoe store on Haight that has the chucks. Even though I hate Haight street, I was already there to pick up some contacts for Kyle, so I figured "what the hell". And I wheeled the boy over to see if he'd be interested in another pair. Lo and behold, he wanted another pair of red high-tops. So I got him a size 8 this time, up from the sevens. He put them right on and wore them out the store. They seemed a little long, but after a few trots, he was no longer stumbling.<br />This past weekend, on our shopping excursion to the gap and old navy, namely for jeans for me and pj's for him, Kyle found some high-tops on sale that were even <em>better</em> for his high instep than chucks...they lace down just as low, but they are more wedge-like than ankle-fitting, so his foot doesn't get smooshed. After two days at school, he reportedly has only taken one shoe off once.<br /><br />Geez, I wonder what he's going to do tomorrow...start drawing?JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-67278021187317523322006-09-16T09:05:00.000-07:002006-09-16T09:10:52.173-07:00Ham and PotatoesLast night, after putting hime to bed, Cobalt got up and started crying. We were in the backyard, enjoying the clear skies and fresh air. We put him back...he got back up. Turns out, he had a poopsie-diapie.<br />While I was changing him, and we were holding our noses and saying, "stinky! stinky!", I asked him what he had for lunch that made him so stinky. Well, he started to mumble and I could swear that what came out of his mouth was that they had ham and potatoes and that it was "mmmmmmmm". <br />Now, maybe I was halucinating or just had wishfull thinking, but I think he really did make that statement...of coarse, it could have been hamburgers with tomatoes, too.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-55498509982489094012006-09-11T10:04:00.000-07:002006-09-11T10:14:55.482-07:00More OperaThis past Sunday was Opera in the Park. I forgot my camera, so forgive me for not getting any pictures up. The weather was fantastic, I even ran around showing everyone my big fat white hairy belly. Cobalt was fantastic! Only ate (or tried to eat) the neighbor's picnic food twice. He had no tantrums, was very quiet the whole time, and learned how to buckle the buckle on the stroller. I couldn't have asked for a better day out of the kid.<br /><br />A strange thing, though, happened as I took him for a walk around the park during intermission. You see, he and I went barefoot. Well, we are in SF, and it was a beautiful day, and well, have <em>you</em> ever tried to put shoes on Cobalt when he doesn't want them? Anyway, we were walking around like a couple of hippies, just enjoying ourselves and the little bit of excercise and minding our own fucking business. A number of people we passed, however, made snide remarks about his feet beeing cold, or careful of the grass, etc. Fuck them! It's my kid and if he wants to walk around barefoot with my permission he fucking can. He's <em>not</em> cold, he hate's shoes and has leather soles, and mind your own fucking business.<br /><br />Sorry about the rant. <br /><br />Next stop, another ball game on Wednesday. I think he's really going to enjoy <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/51812219@N00/sets/72057594133109532/">the slide </a>this time...JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-90401727152024309242006-09-11T09:56:00.000-07:002006-09-11T10:04:31.785-07:00F***ing DogsOk, so we got asked on Labor Day to dogsit a coupld of dogs that we've sat before. As it turns out, we have these dogs for almost <em>2 whole </em>weeks! We've taken these dogs in before, and always have <em>little</em> problems with them, but we can usually deal. This time, however, I think the problems are getting bigger and I don't know if we can deal anymore...<br /><br />Dog A, who has bitten my toe before <em>and</em> sent his mother for stitches <em>twice</em>, bit Cobalt the other night. The dog was lying on Cobalt's bed and Cobalt went over and gave a pat and he put a whole in the kid's hand. Nothing bad, but there was blood and this is entirely unacceptable. This dog has a 4 month old baby at home, and once the kid get's into the discovery age...look out! I hope he doesn't lose any digits.<br /><br />Dog B, whose only usual problem is pissing on furniture or the floor, has taken to eating the back door. Now that we have a yard, we've been putting the mutts in the back yard during the day with Teeva, so as not to cause any distress or destruction. Well, the door is fuct but fixable (I hope) and I've installed some gurads to hopefully prevent it from doing any more damage.<br /><br />I fucking hate small dogs!JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-1157640283963893672006-09-07T07:39:00.000-07:002006-09-07T07:44:43.976-07:00The next time we flyI heard this <a href="http://marketplace.publicradio.org/shows/2006/09/06/PM200609067.html">story</a> on <a href="http://marketplace.publicradio.org/">Marketplace</a> on the way home yesterday. It's a new seatbelt-type <a href="http://www.kidsflysafe.com/">thing</a> that just got approved by the <a href="http://www.faa.gov/">FAA</a> for flying with a toddler.<br /><br />It looks just like a half-way normal seatbelt that converts the airplane lap-belt into a 5-point harness. It's <em>just</em> $74.95, which I find a little steap for what it is. But compared to lugging a carseat along, it's gotta be worth it.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-1156436323352655792006-08-24T08:53:00.000-07:002006-08-24T09:18:43.423-07:00Keeping my youthAnother non-kid related post...<br /><br />When I first moved to California, I really got into seeing live music again. For a while, I was going to 3-5 shows a week, probably. Well, after settling down and making Cobalt, that all came to a screeching halt. I didn't give it up for any other reasons except that I now had a family and enjoyed spending time with them, I am fucking tired at the end of the day and we are basically broke, or have very little expendible income these days.<br /><br />So when I saw that <a href="http://www.soulasylum.com/home.html">Soul Asylum</a> was playing again after <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karl_Mueller">Karl Mueller</a>'s death last year, I thought that this would be a good show to see. To top it off, Tommy Stinson (formerly of the Replacements and G'n'R) was playing bass on tour with them. How could I <em>not</em> go?<br /><br />I won't say that I was disappointed. In fact, I thought they played quite well. Some of the new songs off their new album were good, and I thought one, in particular, sucked. They have more of a bluesy/bar-band feel and I'm not always into that stuff. They reached back a lot to Grave Dancers' Union, and played just the <em>big two</em> (cartoon and sometime...) from Hang Time, but nothing from ...and the horse... They were definitely into it, and after popping one of tommy's pills halfway through the show, Pirner was back to running around the stage like a maniac. Although the show seemed a bit short and I was kind of glad about it, I would have preferred a few more from the older library.<br /><br />One funny thing was said by Dan Murphy that didn't quite make sense. I thought he said that back in the day, they used to play in gardens ant the <a href="http://www.gamh.com">this place</a> was a dump. Don't know if I misheard him or if he was joking or if he was serious. Maybe it's just that there wasn't much of a fan-base there.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-1156269403219586942006-08-22T10:27:00.000-07:002006-08-22T10:56:43.273-07:00WeedI rented the Showtime series, <a href="http://www.sho.com/site/weeds/home.do">Weeds</a>, from <a href="http://www.netflix.com">netflix</a> last week, as it popped up as a recommendation and I'd seen some online ads for it. We popped it in on Friday night after we were disappointed with <a href="http://www.fantasticfourmovie.com/flash_index.html">The Fantastic Four</a>. We were so into it, even without smoking pot, that we ended up watching all 6 of the episodes on the first disk of season 1.<br /><br />Each episode starts off with <a href="http://www.wku.edu/~smithch/MALVINA/homep.htm">Malvina Reynolds</a> singing the song "Little Boxes" over a visual of a typical SoCal suburban neighborhood, complete with every house, car, pet and person looking exactly the same. This exemplifies one of the problems I have with America at the moment. (Apparently, for season 2, the producers are getting different artists to perform the song every week. Elvis Costello and Death Cab for Cutie are the first two <a href="http://www.sho.com/site/weeds/music.do">listed</a>.)<br /><br />So the show uses the scheme of a widower in this <em>typical american suburb </em>selling weed as a way to maintain her "lifestyle". It's a pretty good premise for a show, and the story lines expand way beyond the main premise, which, however, is always around in the background somehow.<br /><br />The stories are good, the acting is good. I can't wait to get the next 6 episodes for another marathon session. Almost as good as the real thing.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-1155752490380689542006-08-16T11:08:00.000-07:002006-08-16T11:36:38.416-07:00A kid was shot in our neighborhood the other day...One of our young neighbors was shot and killed on Monday afternoon. He was 17 years old and about to start his senior year. Here's some links: <a href="http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2006/08/16/BAG1JKJBNI1.DTL">sfgate.com</a>, <a href="http://northpanhandle.blogspot.com/2006/08/shooting-at-grove-and-baker-on-814.html">NOPNA blog</a>.<br /><br />It's sad for a number of reasons, and has gotten me to thinking a lot. Here are some of the lowlights of the situation:<br /><br /><br /><ul><li>It happened at or around the corner of <a href="http://www.google.com/maps?f=q&hl=en&q=Baker+St+%26+Grove+St,+San+Francisco,+CA+94117&ie=UTF8&ll=37.772852,-122.432327&spn=0.025577,0.054889&om=1">Baker and Grove</a>. This is about one block in each direction from our abode.</li><li><a href="http://www.pacificprimary.org/">Pacific Primary </a>is at that corner, and apparently, the shooting occurred right out in front. Something like 30 shots were fired, including some from his buddy running down the street towards the incident. Luckily, nobody else was hurt. This is where we are hoping to send Cobalt.</li><li>Aubrey lived in the neighborhood. I think it was just down the street on Grove accros from the fire station, but I'm not sure. I know that many times I've walked by and said hello to a group of young men hanging out in front. They always seemed polite.</li><li>As is the case with many crimes of this nature in this city, no witnesses are coming forward.</li><li>There are several <a href="http://2dogsandababy.blogspot.com/2006/08/when-did-he-become-some-cute.html">pot clubs</a> on or around divis, just a couple of blocks away. I don't think it's related in any way, but I do see young black men in fancy cars popping in to do some shopping, even though they sure don't look like they have a medical necessity for it.</li><li>There is also some kind of dealing that has gone on a few blocks down at central. I have not seen them there in the last couple of weeks, however. Again, not that there is anything wrong with it, but some of the traffic it brings is stereotypically comical.</li></ul><p>I always feel safe in the neighborhood, even when walking late at night. I don't think that's gonna change any because of this, but I don't know if I can't help but be a little more wary about slow moving rides.</p>JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-1155567227074538292006-08-14T07:38:00.000-07:002006-08-14T08:18:33.856-07:00When did he become some cute?<a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/1600/IMG_1440.jpg"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/320/IMG_1440.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />The last couple of times at the playground, Cobalt has done some things, unprompted that he has never done before that just made my heart sink. I'm sure every parent has these moments, but they are just too cute to pass up writing about...<br /><br />First, we always used to have to prompt him to climb the jungle gym and go down the slide. Now, the last couple of trips, he not only has gone willingly, but doesn't want to stop! He runs up the stairs as fast as he can, and decends the slide with a "weeee" every time. He also learned (but has since forgotten), that sand on a metal slide make it more slippery.<br /><br />Second, we witnessed him playing catch with another kid yesterday. Kyle and I were sitting at the edge of the sand pit at the panhandle playground as we sat in wonderment at our son (the formerly non-inertactive playground kid) tossed a soccerball back and forth with another kid. We sat in total amazement and just put our arms around each other. We were like "is that <em>our</em> boy?"<br /><br />And lastly, we've been trying to teach the boy to throw things in the trash. Every once in a while, while walking home from daycare, he decides he wants to pick something up that he finds on the sidewalk, e.g. bottlecap, cigarette butt, etc.) Last Friday, our friend Andrew graciously volunteered to take Cobalt off our hands so we could go see <a href="http://www.climatecrisis.net/">An Inconvenient Truth</a>, a.k.a., the Al Gore movie (perhaps more on that later). Anyway, when we got home, Andrew told us a couple of things that happened at the playground. First, the kid was the last one standing (See first item above). Second he found a cigarette butt in the sand and Andrew told him to put it in the trash and he <em>ran</em> across the playground and stood on the fence to try to throw it in the trash bin. He missed, but wtf? He ran to throw out a butt? How cool is that?<br /><br />And lastly...the other night we ran out of milk and I had to walk down to Ray's on Divis to get some. Mom was working around the house, so I decided to walk Cobalt with me, even though he was in his fleece sleeper. For the first time ever, he held my hand the whole way down. He never does that, and reluctantly holds my hand to cross the streets. The only time he paused was to say <em>high</em> to the folks at the <em>dispensery</em>. He must have caught the munchies after passing the pot club, because inside the store, he wanted some popcorn and it took him a while to decide which flavor to get.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-1155261801222991322006-08-10T18:53:00.000-07:002006-08-10T19:03:21.236-07:00Bake me a cake as fast as you can<a href="http://static.flickr.com/61/210065141_f846bef939_o.jpg"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://static.flickr.com/61/210065141_f846bef939_o.jpg" border="0" /></a> Kyle and J spent last Saturday baking and assembling (respectively) the cake you see above. It was a surprise for Dera-Jill's birthday. The cake is a white cake with almond paste. Daquois (meringue) was used to give it some crispy. Marzapan was used to make the shapes. Homeade Raspberry sauce and almond-butter-cream frosting was used as the glue.<br /><br />Kyle wanted to make an abstract representation of their house...<br /><a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/1600/IMG_1443.jpg"><img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/320/IMG_1443.jpg" border="0" /></a>I think she did a pretty good job. It was quite fun, actually. Because of the rare warm summer in SF (see half-naked man to the right), she had to put the cake in the freezer to help the butter cream firm up.<br /><br />We brought the cake over when Zach took D-J out to dinner, with her family from MA.JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22265178.post-1154405588110585382006-07-31T21:06:00.000-07:002006-08-01T12:51:31.556-07:00Better than the Flea MarketOk, so we've been busy lately. Haven't even had time to blog. Is blog even a verb? Well, what have we been up to? Besides work and the "heat wave", we've been buying more stuff for the house.<br /><br />Why do I care about shopping? And why should anyone else (not that anyone actually reads this)? Frankly, we've been getting some killer deals, thanks to craigslist, garage sales and friends. Here's the list for the last two weeks alone (est. retail in parenthesis):<br /><br />1) Toddler Bed - $30($75) from craigslist.<br /><a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/1600/IMG_1376.0.jpg"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/320/IMG_1376.0.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />Cobalt slept in his bed the very first night we put it up. At 32lbs and 36-1/2", he was getting a little big for crib. This is a very basic IKEA model, but hey, what the hell. It should be good for a year or two.<br /><br />2) Bicycle Trailer for the little guy - $30($130) from craigslist.<br /><a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/1600/IMG_1381.3.jpg"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/320/IMG_1381.3.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />I fixed Kyle's bike last fall, and cleaned mine up around Bastille Day (aka, Toby's Birthday). Now that we had working bikes, what would we do with the boy when we went for a ride? We decided to go with a trailer rather than the back seat, due to his extra-large size. This is about the bottom of the line (of the acceptable brands, anyway). It's better than the ones one can get at Target, Walmart or Costco, and not as good as the trailers at REI, for example. We've already gone on 4 rides: the first night was just around the panhandle, because we didn't have a helmet for him yet. After finding a helmet (and fighting with the little guy to try it on), we went for our first ride out to the ocean. This is a picture from that Sunday morning. Note that it was about 80 degrees at ocean beach. On 2 out of 3 trips to the beach so far, Cobalt has fallen asleep on the way back. So it can't be all that uncomfortable.<br /><br />3) Picnic Table for the back yard - $100($200?) from garage sale down the street on the way to pick up Cobalt's helmet.<br /><a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/1600/IMG_1403.2.jpg"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/320/IMG_1403.2.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />We were all set to build one of these puppies, and had been searching for old or extra decking wood on craigslist when we came across this just down the street. It was a no-brainer and a god-send. We broke it in with visits from those escaping the heat...Wei, Russ and Radlee up from San Jose on Saturday and Kyle, Rox, Zuby and Benny coming down from a scorching 112F in Ukiah on Sunday.<br /><br />The table and chairs and in good shape. We cleaned them real well and just need to oil them.<br /><br />4) Sideboard-type antiquey thing - FREE ($40-$400) from Kyle's co-worker, Lise (congrats on the new house!)<br /><a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/1600/IMG_1421.1.jpg"><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/320/IMG_1421.1.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />We got the best possible price on this lovely item...FREE. Lise just bought a house in Glen Park with her partner and decided that after 20 years (plus additional from her sister before her) or so that it was time to part with it. Not sure how to describe it, but we are using it as a sideboard. We now have the commode that came from vermont and this thing flanking the "fireplace". Much better than the stack of ikea cubes we had there before. I think we now have room for all of our linens and candles and then some. Of course, Kyle has already filled it up.<br /><br />5) Futon, twin-bed size - $10 ($150?) from craigslist.<br /><img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7766/2263/320/IMG_1427.2.jpg" border="0" /><br /><p>After my Parents come to visit in August, we will have a <a href="http://www.sfhomestay.com/">homestay</a> student from China staying with us for a month. This will give us a little bit of added cash so we can keep <a href="http://www.fourleggedfitness.com/">Johnny and Cari</a> for the dogs, while we try to save money for our housing default account, future repairs and Cobalt's college fund. Kyle has stayed at homestays in the past and has had several students stay with her back on Lyon street, one of which was partially responsible for Teeva's "nails" incident. Here's to hoping it doesn't happen again!</p><p>The picture above shows the futon in the living room, but we plan on putting it into the studio/office/junk room as soon as we get it cleaned up and painted. It's actually quite comfortable, and we like it wear it is. Maybe we'll replace the rocker that usually sits there.</p><p>It's funny, the night before I found this, I said to Kyle that I didn't think we were going to be able to find what we were looking for on craigslist, and might have to buy a new one or settle for a cheap twin bed that we could sell again after the homestay leaves. And what do you know, not an hour later this was posted and I picked it up on the way home from work (on a Sunday, yuk!).</p><p>I'm sure there'll be more to come and we'll keep you posted. Until then, happ shopping.</p>JJSSFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14090775958067023705noreply@blogger.com0